Dating ungrateful women
As a rule it is thought that women are fond of being taken care of, being given wonderful flowers etc. Women really like it when men devote poems and songs to their women who believe that a man must be a man in a relationship. That is why men are usually brought up that way: men should adore their women and should do their best to please their girlfriends and wives.
It is often the case that women complain about their men being not caring and not sensitive enough, which causes misunderstanding. The partners begin quarrelling all the time; they can stop romance and dating or can divorce. Who is to blame for it?
But to begin with let's answer the question: what shall do women on their part? Certainly, they should be grateful to their loving men. Women must show it openly, let men know that their efforts don't remain unnoticed. It is human, after all. But there are some women who get used to being paid a great deal of men's attention. Such women take it for granted when a lot of men try hard to please them. They take it for granted without ever being aware that men need their attention too and expect women to express thanks for everything that men have done for their loved ones. Besides, if a man loves a woman too much her interest in him can begin to die, she is likely to get bored with him and switch her attention to other people.
That can partly explain why there are men who have their reasons for stop being too caring and too devoted to their ungrateful women. Men just notice when women don't appreciate love and care. Then they want to do nothing but to give a lesson to their women.
In such a way it is a question itself: maybe nobody is to blame for break off at all, but the time has come to understand that the two people have not been created for each other? We always expect the people are dating to do a number of things. But maybe we should try to think, is not it our own fault?
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