Let us talk about dating and the problem of trusting (part 2)
How would you act in a situation like that? Maybe you would prefer to stop dating? But let's try to make it clear. First of all, usually women who love never confuse their men and never give them mixed signals. It is said that there's a simple reason why you can't see the forest through the trees. It's because somebody's blowing smoke at you! And if you don't watch yourself, you're going to get burned.
What shall you do if the girl you are dating wants you to talk about how much you like he? Just think, maybe it is on the girl and on her self-esteem deficiency? There is a simple way to answer when a girl wants you to talk about how much you like her, you just tell her: "Honey, I like you almost as much as you love me!"
Besides, it is advisable for you then don't be talking to her every day. Show a little self-control. Try letting her phone calls back up for three or four days. Then we'll find out for sure whether it's her self-esteem that's lacking, or her interest level.
On the other hand, by now it should be obvious that he has actually got more problems in his relationship with her than just trust. But let's take a look at that issue anyway. Girls who are trustworthy never ask if you trust them. Only girls who are untrustworthy ask that question. Doctor Freud used to call it "projection." Like the girl who says to you, "I don't care what kind of car a guy drives". Why would she bring the subject up in the first place if she doesn't care about your car? Remember - women don't lie, and men don't listen. Guys are idiots if they don't keep their eyes and ears open.
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