Increasing chances
If a dream about a villa in California does not let you fall asleep at night and you are ready to sacrifice almost everything o make it come true then you should estimate your chances to become a Russian mail order bride objectively. You are the only one who has to decide how far you are ready to go.
The only thing that a mail order bride should not use is telling lies. Providing a gentleman with false information about yourself is the worst thing you can do and the greatest mistake you can commit. Never tell lies about your age, language ability and the number of children you have.
Sooner or later your trickery will be discovered and you will lose everything. You will compromise yourself as a Russian mail order bride. In many countries there is a law that marriage can be considered illegal if one of the married couple deliberately provided wrong information about himself.
Western world treats lies very seriously and you can spoil everything even by telling a small lie. Moreover there are a lot of ways to increase your chances without it.
As you have already noticed it the younger Russian mail order bride is the easier it is for her to find a fiancé. This criterion can hardly be corrected. So the only thing that is left is to put up with the age.
But age also can give you one rather big advantage - experience. That is the thing that you should make use of. More experienced women know what men are looking for better, they know what men appreciate in women and consequently they can offer exactly what men want. Moreover if you are over 40 that means that you children are independent and you will live for your partner and yourself. Remember to stress it in your letters.
The next very important criterion is language ability. Here everything depends on you only. You can improve it yourself and it is really a very big advantage.
If you decided to become a Russian mail order bride but you do not know the language the first thing you should do is to go and find some language classes. No delays! Do it tomorrow. If you have no money for language classes buy a textbook and tapes and start studying on you own (at least 1 hour a day). There are several reasons for not postponing it till tomorrow.
First of all foreign men are looking for a woman who can speak their language.
Secondly, if you do not know the language how are you going to communicate with your would-be husband? Are you going to do it with the help of some interpreter? You will hardly be able to win his heart if you use some mediator. That is why the interpreters (they are mostly women in marriage agencies) take rather small fees - they have an opportunity to meet a lot of foreigners and they are able to charm almost everyone. That is why the interpreters in marriage agencies change so often.
I have a friend who used to be an interpreter of one of the local marriage agencies. Her would-be husband came to that country to meet another woman but when he was leaving he was in love with her. Do you need any other examples?
If you try hard in 1 year or in a year and a half you will be able to speak English rather well. The only thing you need is being hard-working and diligent. But it is worth it. Is not you life happiness worth 1 year's work?
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